Troye Sivan – Coming Out


Troye Sivan – Coming Out

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[Troye Sivan:] Source:
Hey, what’s up you guys, it’s Troye Sivan and this is probably the most nervous I’ve ever been in my entire life. Uh… but, I’m going to deal with it because I have something to tell you guys as you can see by the title of this video.

The date today is August 7th, 2013, and the reason I’m telling you this is because on August 7th, 2010, I’ve told my family that I am gay.

And now on August 7th, 2013, I want you guys to know that I’m gay.

It feels king of weird to have to announce it like this on the internet, but I feel like a lot of you guys are like real genuine friends of mine and I share everything with the internet.

I share every aspect of my life with the internet and whether or not that’s a good thing, I don’t know, but this is not something that I’m ashamed of and this it’s not something anyone should have to be ashamed of.

So, why not share it with all of you guys? I’m terrified. I know that some people are going to have a problem with this. I know that this could kind of change everything for me, but it shouldn’t have to. And that’s why I’m making this video, and that’s why I think it’s important that people make these kind of videos, because my aim on this channel is to make you guys smile and you guys laugh and that’s never going to change.

I’m still gonna make the same videos. I’m still the same Troye, this is just some new information about Troye.

Now that I have told you guys that I may as well catch you up on this chunk of my life that’s kind of been missing from the internet’s knowledge.

When I was born, I always knew there something was a little bit different about me, I couldn’t figure out what it was, but the word ‘gay’ kind of scared me a lot when I was younger and I knew that wasn’t a good thing.

I remember when I was younger, I use to lie in bed and picture like- you know the signs of the doors of toilets: the female sign and the male sign. And I used to picture the male sign and I put a big cross through it in my head and I used to picture the female sign and put a big green tick next to it. That kind of proves that I’ve always been this way and I’ve always known there was something was up.

But yeah, basically I’ve always kind of put those thoughts in the back burner, in the back of my mind. I didn’t really want to really think about it. It kind of scared me and terrified me. Maybe something was gonna change.

[Troye Sivan:] Source:
Then when I was fourteen, I went to the park with my best friend, Kayla and Kayla and I was talking about our deepest darkest secrets and I thought about it and I was like, there is this one thing, but that was something I was never ever, ever, ever going to discuss with anyone. That was kind of the pack that I made in my head, you know that was your thing and that was your secret to keep forever ever and ever.

But, Kayla is Kayla and there’s a reason that she is my best friend and she managed to kind of pulled it out of me and I said to her, ‘I think I might be’ and she goes to me, Troye, are you bisexual?

And I started to cry my eyes out and hugged her and said, ‘I think I might be, yeah’.

But I freaked out because, I wasn’t ready. I really genuinely was not ready for this. I have never thought about it before, and it was just kind of this thing in the back of my mind that I never really thought about.

So, I ran home crying and we decided we were never ever going to speak about it again.

But what that did, is that it kind of opened up this thing in my head that could be the case.

So, it kind of forced me to deal with it there and then when I was fourteen and a half.

So, for about six months, I did the only thing I know how to do which is go on my laptop.

And this is the majority of the reason why I’m doing this today is because I hope people like fourteen year old Troye are going to find this video because I watched pretty much every coming out video on YouTube that has ever been posted.

I watched it in between fourteen and a half and fifteen and those ‘Coming Out’ videos and those people on YouTube, those brave, brave, brave people on YouTube. Without them, I don’t know where I’d be. I don’t know, I genuinely don’t know what I would’ve done because, yeah, it just kind of showed me that it’s okay. You know what I mean? And that there is people out there are living a happy, healthy life who are absolutely fine and they happen to be gay as well.

So, in those six months, I became happy with myself.

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So, I went back to Kayla’s house, this is like six months later and we haven’t spoken about it at all. I said to her, ‘I got to tell you something’, and I told her again, for the second time. And since then, our friendship has been like absolutely unbreakable. The strongest kind of friendship you could have, and she’s been so accepting and so amazing. And she just hugged me and told me it was completely okay and within ten minutes, we were back to normal, 100% fine.

And then on August 7th, 2010, I was lying in bed with my dad. And we started kind of talking about, religion and stuff like that. I said to him, if there was anything about religion that you could change, what would you change? And he said to me like, he was like, you know, to me the whole gay thing. It really- it really doesn’t make sense. Why- why our religion would kind of be against it or whatever because it’s completely natural, and it’s how those people are and everything. And to be honest: I think he was trying to kind of pull it out of me, because he knows me better than anyone else knows me.

Yeah, he said to me, ‘yeah, why? What about you?’ And I was like, yeah, pretty much the same. Just, the whole gay thing it doesn’t really make sense to me. And he was like okay. And I went, because dad. And I don’t know if this only happened to me: anyone else who had to come out or say something really nerve-wracking, let me know if this happened to you as well. But I felt a literal, physical, locking of my throat and I couldn’t speak. So I went, because dad, ‘I’m gay.’

I just remember him kind of looking over at me and starting to kind of bawl his eyes out, I also bawled my eyes out.

We hugged and I asked him I was like, ‘dad, do you still love me?’ And he looked at me like I was absolutely crazy and said, ‘yes, of course, I still love you’. And that was that. And then we spoke until like the early hours of the morning. And he just wanted to make sure that I was okay, that was literally his only worrying about. To him, it did not make the slightest, slightest difference in his life.

And yeah, it was completely fine. It was completely, completely fine. I think in the back of my head I always knew it would be, but it was just actually jumping over that hurdle that was probably the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life.

When I woke up in the morning, he had told my mum. And my mum woke up and she gave me a hug and we sat and talked for a long time.

And then, progressively throughout the week, my dad and mum on my request told all my siblings.

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Even though they told them separately, each one of the had the exact same reaction which was to come into my room and just hug me and tell me it was absolutely okay and 100% fine.

And after my family, I just carried on working through like my inner circle of best, best, best friends, and not a single one of them had a problem with it.

And I think that is absolutely incredible.

I am surrounded by the most amazing, amazing people. If anything, it just brought me, my friends a lot closer and me and my family a lot closer. Because, I don’t have anything to hide anymore, so I can just kind of chill and not think about anything anymore and just yeah, life – life is awesome. And a lot of times, you see these like it gets better videos online and things of that nature where for people, it’s really, really, really shit in the beginning, but don’t worry, it gets better.

I’m here to say, that it’s true because it will get better for everyone.

But I’m also here to say that I guess my message is that it could be good right from the start.

You know, you could have a completely smooth, smooth sail out of the closet.

Though this video has probably been the hardest video to make, that I’ve ever made, I hope that nothing will change.

I’m going to put my e-mail address in the down bar so you guys can contact me with any questions or queries.

And I’m also going to put a whole lot of resources for young gay teens in the description that — the kind of resources that helped me out when I was a scared little fourteen year old.

I love you guys so much. Seriously I do. I really do. Do I do the wink in this video? Is the video to serious to do the wink? Nah.

[Troye Sivan:] Source: L Y B I O . N E T
Okay, I love you guys so much. I’ll see you next week. Bye.

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